My friend T spoke of her struggles during a shopping experience this week in her blog. I too have
similar experiences recently. I find my patience is shorter than usual.
This last week I decided to take Thursday off so I can attend C's student of the month luncheon at the school. The luncheon is a pretty big deal. The school brings in pizza, pop, and decorated cookies for the lunch. They also ask the student to invite a "favorite" teacher who will speak about why my son is worthy of student of the month. They ALSO give the recipients a pin, t-shirt, and certificate. Local school board members as well as the district
superintendent is invited to celebrate our students success. Because the celebration was at 11:00 I decided that taking the whole day off would be
beneficial to C and my mental state. I wouldn't have to hurry and I could get a ton of errands done.
One major errand, was that the van needed serviced and repaired because the message board was reading,
TPMS fault.
TPMS means that the tire pressure sensor is broke which means more time spent waiting for the car to get fixed. Oh well, I can use the time to grade papers, read, and relax, right? But after 90 minutes of waiting, I knew that I was going to freak out if they didn't get done quickly. The bad news just got worse, they couldn't fix the sensor so I will have to return to the service station, PLUS the sensor will cost $100 to fix. Do I need this sensor?
Maintaince man says yes. The sensor won't be
operable when I pick up a nail. What happened to the good old days when I felt a flat tire, or saw the tire was flat? Do I need to
pay to figure this out?
Next errand, order my glasses and pick up contacts from the eye clinic. I recently have had trouble keeping my contacts in for extended amounts of time. After my last trip to the
optometrist she felt that my
prescription should change to a slightly lower power in the right eye. I tried this new contact for a week and found that I couldn't see to drive at night. I made a call to the clinic and they quickly changed the
prescription back to the original power. I thought that it was funny that the contact lady didn't need to check with the doctor, but who was I to complain, this system was much quicker and didn't involve me going back to the doctor. So since I can't wear my contacts for a full day anymore, I have asked for a pair of new glasses for Christmas. I'd buy the Sarah
Palin glasses, but those frames start at $300!
I've already picked out the glasses on a previous visit so this shouldn't take long, right? Think again! There is a list to put your name on just to start the process, and then you have to wait for every old person in town to be waited on while the customer service person asks their life story. When I do get waited on, the computer locks up and they can't find my glasses
prescription. Do I happen to have mine in the car???
Yeah sure, I carry that around with me. (I would have, but I figured this was my normal eye doctor so why would i need it, they have it!) Nope, my glasses
prescription is nowhere to be found, and oddly enough I DID have the
prescription in the car. UGH! Remember I don't like the new
prescription? Yep, that the one that is
scribed on the paper and there is nothing that I can do to convince them that I want the old
prescription. I've had the same
prescription for ten years but that doesn't matter. Why does shopping have to be so hard? I'm ready to bail on the whole idea, my heart starts to beat faster and I have internal thoughts start racing in my head, "I need to get this done, I need to go, I don't really need these glasses, I'll be fine. Be patient, Be patient, Be patient," this is the statement I have to keep repeating to myself to keep from reaching over and throwing the computer.